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                    家若有兒想為龍

                    時間: 2014-12-10    閱讀: 1280 次    來源:
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                     無意中在電視上看到一個少年犯,具體是什么原因不知道;只知道這個少年犯雖然有工作,但工資不夠花(也就是所謂的月光族),每次月底都要打電話問家里要錢;結果到最后父母都慘死在兒子的手中。

                    這件事讓我想到現在很多的年輕人,游手好閑的,迷戀網絡的,不務正業的,每個月工資不夠花的;年輕人經歷少,因為沒錢走錯路的有很多;當自己后悔的時候已經是不可挽回的了,那么,為什么會有這么多的少年犯?為什么會有那么多的家庭悲劇出現?

                    有句話曾經是被我否定的,但是想想,雖然不能說是全對,至少也有99.9%;俗話說:慈母多敗兒。從我個人的經歷可很多現實社會的例子我可以很肯定一件事:那就是慈母多敗兒。小時候,媽媽最疼我,什么都給我留著;每次爸爸打我,就往媽媽身邊跑;我不能說父母的疼愛是錯的,因為每個父母都是會全心全意愛自己的孩子的,這是不可否認的;只是,由于一些思想的約束,讓父母對愛產生了一種錯誤的觀念。

                    直到22歲,被從小寵到大的我還是一無所成,沒有固定的工作,沒有安靜下來工作的心;很多東西不會,不知道,不想去做,因為被父母慣的。后來,一個人出去打工,遇到很多的事,經歷了很多,才發現自己會的那么少。

                    所幸的是我喜歡學習,遇到不會不懂的我愿意去學,后來雖然不上學了,還是翻看了很多的書籍,學到了很多的東西。筆者想說的是,并不是每個人都能像我那么的幸運,靠著自己的好運,每次都能逢兇化吉,能在父母的寵愛中走出來,嚴格規范自己的決心。

                    倘若,你的家里有兒子;請一定要好好的教育,小的時候要嚴格的去管教,如果你覺得孩子小、不懂事、不忍心,那么你不是愛你的兒子,而是把他推向了一個懸崖,而是給你的兒子逼上了絕路。還記得有句話說:窮養兒,富養女。你的兒子可以不是大丈夫,也可以不是頂天立地的,但至少你該給他足夠去嘗試經歷的空間;狠不下心來管教你的孩子,當你后悔的時候,你一定會悔恨難當的。

                    小時候,兒子是寶;一有哭聲就抱,夜里常常折騰的一家人身心疲憊;我二嬸常說的一句話:孩子那么小,什么都不懂,要是哭了不哄,讓他哭自己是多么的不忍心;我想,這也是每一個父母的想法。孩子上學了,父母就經常在外面工作,以為要供孩子上學才是最重要的,把錢交到學校以后,把兒子也交給學校。

                    覺得就可以放心的工作了。孩子長大了,還會像小時候那般的疼愛、寵著、慣著;因為父母已經習慣了。于是,我們常常會看到孩子都十幾二十了還是讓父母給洗衣服,問家里要錢。

                    于是,父母哪怕是五十歲了,六十歲了還要辛辛苦苦的去工作掙錢,讓兒子不吃苦受累;筆者想提醒的是:每個人都要靠自己去走屬于他自己的人生路,你鋪的再好也沒用;你能陪他們五十年,六十年,卻不能陪一輩子。而事實上,即使父母為兒子付出的再多,他也會有了老婆忘了娘的;與其扼殺了兒子的未來又要自己抹眼淚,倒不如好好的指引教導你的兒子。

                    如果你想讓你的兒子有足夠的能力自己生活,自己打拼,自己謀生,想你的兒子成為人中之龍,就應該讓他們自己去經歷;能夠辛苦的把兒子養大不容易,為了他們以后不會誤入歧途,能夠好好的生存。

                    就要讓他們從小就吃苦受罪,一旦他習慣了吃苦就不會再失去生存的能力,就算他不能成為一個非常優秀的人,至少對于父母,對于祖祖輩輩來說,你的兒子能夠衣食無憂的過一輩子,也是一種榮耀。

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