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                    當“新年快樂”變成了“有對象沒”

                    時間: 2016-12-25    閱讀: 1408 次    來源:
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                    不知從何時起,別人口中“新年快樂”的祝賀都變成了“有對象沒”。也許這是一場風行已久的傳統,只是現在才輪到這樣尷尬的我。

                    ——寫在前面

                    春節還沒開始,早早收拾行囊回家。踏著歸途的列車,伴隨轟鳴的汽笛。你躺著久違的床,想美美的睡一覺。“怎么沒帶對象回家?”這是回家后老媽開口和你說的第一句話。

                    只是,等你察覺這是一個嚴重的問題時,才發現自己早已被貼上“廢鐵圣斗士”的標簽。不管你為何單身,沒有任何借口,沒有任何理由,錯在你是單身。最后的結論是你沒人要,和廢鐵一樣。

                    尤其是你的父母,于是你驚訝的發現,原來無論自己在學校多乖巧,多努力的扮演好學生的角色或者嘗試獨立自主,在他們眼中,你都該找個對象,你已經老大不小了,你是一個要成家的人了。

                    帶女朋友回家,成了他們評判一個人價值的唯一標準,你覺得好笑,但同時也覺得灰心。

                    然后在某一個無意間,你發現這些事情幕后的操作者。隔壁的阿姨會說:“村東頭的誰誰和你一樣大,孩子都滿地跑了。”對面的爺爺會說:“怎么還沒找對象啊,都老大不小了。”甚至很少聯系的親戚也會參合幾句:“哎,你還沒找對象啊,老了會很凄涼的。”

                    你多想奮起反抗,你所接受的價值觀里23歲才開始獨立,離結婚還很遠。老家的習俗總是會讓你覺得異常尷尬,舊時的玩伴一起吃個飯都是帶著孩子。他們問起你的單身狀態,你會笑著說:“不急,我還有幾個月才畢業。”其實你很理解他們為什么會覺你沒有結婚很奇葩,因為他們一直遵守著早婚早成家早立業的傳統。在他們的眼中,20多歲就是成家的時候。

                    你也從不知道,他們眼中你不快樂只是因為單身,原來“單身與”不快樂“是等號。

                    你突然懷念起從前,很久以前,當”新年快樂“還沒變成”有對象沒“時,你至少和你的父母是同一戰線,一同抵御不同的問候,現在,你最親愛的人也開始拿著劍面向你。比起你的單身這件事更傷人。當別人詢問多了,你口中的堅持變成了:”慢慢來,不著急,我才20多歲,我還想多玩幾年。“你所堅持的后盾只是你還沒長大。

                    再接著,你洋洋得意的報告你這學期又拿了獎學金,他們會說:”要是談戀愛有這么用心就好了。“當你醉心你一首新歌的詞作時,他們會皺著眉頭說:”成天寫些亂七八糟的東西,天天呆在家里,難怪找不到女朋友。“當你鼓足勇氣,準備一場說走就走的旅行時。他們會埋怨道:”就知道玩,也不好好找個對象。“原本是自己對自己好的方式都變成了一種阻礙。

                    到最后,你變成了他們的新年愿望,他們期許的夢想只能依靠你來完成。

                    你很想告訴他們,你過得很好,你比他們想象的更快樂,未來也會努力讓自己過的更好,不管是一個人還是兩個人,你都會讓自己更快樂。你不是”廢鐵圣斗士“,只是沒碰到那個讓你心安的人。你要的是開心快樂,這比結婚更真實,這才是你的信仰。

                    你很抱歉沒能讓他們的愿望實現,其實婚姻這個問題很神圣,你不想輕易的就去開始。你不是不想”結婚“,只是不想”隨便的結婚“。

                    你并不排斥其他的可能性,只是,你不想把心交給一個不能聽懂你言語的人。

                    ”有對象沒?“

                    ”我很快樂。“

                    下次有人問你,你一定要這么驕傲的回答。

                    文/落小寒

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